Common Questions
Straightforward answers to the questions I hear most often.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we have to sell the home during divorce?
No. Selling is the most common outcome, but it is not the only option. One party may choose to buy the other out and keep the home, or both parties may agree to delay the sale. The right choice depends on your financial situation, legal proceedings, and what both parties can agree to.
Can one person keep the home?
Yes, in many cases. To keep the home, the party staying would typically need to qualify to refinance the mortgage in their own name and buy out the other party’s equity. This requires financial qualification and a clear agreement on the home’s value.
What if we don’t agree on what to do?
Disagreement is common. My role is to provide clear, objective information that both parties can use as a foundation for decision-making. When disagreement persists, I work alongside attorneys and mediators to help find a path forward.
What is the home actually worth?
Value is established through a comparative market analysis (CMA) and, if required, a formal appraisal. I provide objective, professionally prepared valuations that both parties can rely on, removing the guesswork and emotion from the conversation.
When should we list the home?
Timing depends on multiple factors: legal proceedings, market conditions, the home’s condition, and what both parties can agree to. I help you understand the trade-offs so you can make a timing decision that makes sense for your specific situation.
Do you take sides?
No. My role is explicitly neutral. I provide the same information to both parties, maintain professional communication with everyone involved, and do not advocate for any outcome other than an informed, fair resolution.
Can I work with you even if my ex has their own real estate agent?
Yes. In some cases, having a single neutral professional coordinate the property matters is actually simpler than having two separate agents. I can explain how a co-managed arrangement works and whether it might fit your situation.
What does a confidential consultation involve?
An initial consultation is simply a conversation. I listen to your situation, explain your options, and answer your questions, with no pressure and no obligation. You can include your attorney if you prefer.